Monday, May 24, 2010

Becoming a Man

In the middle of a passage on the excellency of love in his letter to the Corinthians, the apostle Paul says:
When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things.
If you consider the context of this statement, you'll find that a big point Paul makes is that we must consider our motives, and not just our actions when it comes to spiritual maturity. One practical way to gauge your own maturity is to ask yourself why you do the good things you do. Do you act out of love for God and man or for other reasons?

One thing that I've sometimes struggled with during my Christian life is how to follow my conscience without being prideful and without condemning others- how to be in the world without being of the world. There are multiple aspects of being of the world. Obviously, there's being of the world by living in sin outwardly; but then there's also the sin of pride, a sin that is more inward.

Paul says love does not brag and love is not arrogant. In other words, a spiritually mature, loving man does not go into the world and think, "look at how much better I am than all of you!" Children think this way. After all, what man thinks highly of himself for being able to walk when he sees a baby crawling? What kind of teacher takes pride in thinking about how scholarly she is when she sees students struggling to learn new material?

In my heart, I used to look down on people who touched alcohol because I didn't want to touch it. Granted, no one should drink unlawfully. But when people drink legally and without getting drunk, the matter becomes gray, rather than black and white. In fact, Jesus was called a gluttonous man, a drunkard, and a friend of tax collectors and sinners. He was more concerned about saving men than saving his reputation.

How do we make since out of all of this? Well, let's get one thing straight- Jesus did not sin. You will not find a bible passage that involves Jesus getting drunk, pigging out, or cheating people out of their money. Nor will you find a passage in which Jesus did anything just for the heck of it, like have a glass of wine by himself at the end of a long day just because he felt like having one- not that there's anything sinful about having one drink "just because," but that's just the way Jesus lived. That's because Jesus had so much love for mankind. Everything he did was out of love for us.

When Jesus drank, he drank to win the hearts of men. When he went for a walk, he did it to teach men. When he rested and prayed for strength, he rested and prayed for strength so he could serve others. He came to earth in the form of a man and he lived a righteous life to redeem mankind. He never bragged about being without sin to sinners; he did ask sinners to "go and sin no more," but he did it out of love, not out of arrogance or selfish ambition. The life that Jesus lived was that of a spiritually mature man.

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Surviving the Torrent

"Why do you call me, 'Lord, Lord,' and do not do what I say? I will show you what he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice. He is like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete."                                                                                                -Luke 6:46-49 (NIV)
As a house's stability is tested when a storm strikes, so is our foundation (what keeps us together) tested when life gets rough.  There have been certain periods of my life where it was clear that my foundation was not built in the right place.  During these times, I saw that my foundation was built from my happiness; I built every brick on what made me satisfied.  So when trouble came, I was left at nothing- because my own happiness was unable to come through and hold myself together.

I had made every decision towards what was best for me- what I thought would keep me happy.  I placed my hope in satisfaction, and dreamed of when everything would be wonderful.  Suddenly, there's a hole in my plan- my dreams were crushed.  Things did not happen as they were suppose to.  My foundation relied on those dreams- and did nothing but crumble. 

I did learn a lesson from this: the only thing that will keep me stable in this world is laying a foundation of Jesus Christ.  With Christ as my foundation, I can face any torrent; I can emerge unshaken from the worst that life has to offer.

I want to lay my foundation built upon Christ.  I want to hear his words and put them into practice.

Monday, May 10, 2010

"The Christian Atheist"

I recently read a very good book by Craig Groeschel titled, The Christian Atheist. In the book Groeschel presents several different areas of life in which a Christian could start living like a "Christian Atheist." He describes "Christian Atheists" as people who call themselves Christians while they live like atheists and even if you do not think that this is a problem that you struggle with I encourage you to read this book because you may be surprised how easy it is to slip into this kind of lifestyle. I was certainly surprised by how much in this book I could see in my own life. Although Groeschel shows numerous different ways a Christian can fall into this lifestyle I thought one of the best parts of the book was in the conclusion.

At the end of the book Groeschel compares the Christian life to three lines that you must cross. The first line is, "I believe in God and the gospel of Christ enough to benefit from it," and the second line is, "I believe in God and Christ’s gospel enough to contribute comfortably." He then points out that the majority of Christians are living behind one of these lines. I completely agree with this and I see this in my own life all the time. The are many times in my life where I seek out the benefits from believing in Christ while ignoring everything else associated with it. And there are other times where I might sacrifice my time or money for the Lord as long as I am able to do it without coming out of my comfort zone. However, Groeschel makes it clear that this is not how the Bible tells Christians to live.

The way that Christians were meant to live involves Groeschel's "Third Line," which is "I believe in God and Christ’s gospel enough to give my life to it." While this could look different for every person the point is that as Christians we should be living our lives for the Lord and not for the things of this earth. This is where we must look at our priorities in life and make sure that God is at the top of the list. If God is not at the top then we must find a way to get Him there. It might not be an easy process and it could take a long time. There are many things of this world that can seem more important than God in a given moment. What we have to remember is that all these things are temporary while the Lord will last forever. I am currently on a mission to rid myself of the things of this earth that are keeping me from crossing the "third line." A lot of the time it is extremely difficult to give some of these things up but the rewards of doing so are so much greater. I encourage you to read this book and reflect on your own life while reading it. Here are some Bible verses that Groeschel gives that support living over the "third line."

“For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it. What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul?” (Matt. 16:25 – 26).

“I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me” (Gal. 2:20).


“However, I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me — the task of testifying to the gospel” (Acts 20:24).

“What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ” (Phil. 3:8).